How to Grieve

A perfectionist's guide to doing it right

It’s all-encompassing right now.

Sometimes it feels like anger. Anger at the world for not marching in the streets for the hundreds and hundreds of Jewish bodies, torn apart by terrorists in ways I wouldn’t dare to repeat here. Anger at the antisemites for ripping down images of captive children, elders, women, and teenagers while proudly toting posters …